<H4><B><CENTER>HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED EVER BEFORE?</H4></B></CENTER>

Have you ever experienced a moment in your life when you just ran out of words and you go… s i l e n t ?

Let me assist you in recalling…

.. the moment when you left your home for the first time and you look back at your parents who are worried that their son/daughter are leaving them yet happy that their child took the first step towards independence.

… the moment when the girl/boy you like most.. smiled back at you!You didn’t say anything.. you just smile back n turned around did a miny jig..(haha choo cute)

….the moment when you are alone and you smile silently as you recall something/someone, it is then when you really mean it..(it happened and happens with every one of us, is not it?)

… the moment when you get better marks than you expected… those “numb” moments of ecstasy n surprise “is that true?”…(with that cute confused face,wow)

…the moment when someone who is very very close to you is going away from you, as they leave, your hands stretch out as to stop them, but then you pull it back coz you know they would be better off if let gone, you smile and wish no matter where they go they always be happy..

…..the moment when u r alone in ur room, listening to your favorite number, enjoying each word of it, singing along, dancing freely as if no one is watching, its the moment when u enjoy being with yourself in that silent…

….when you sit silently n the terrace gazing at the dark star studded sky and all of a sudden a cold wind touches you off giving you goosebumbs…(feel it!)

….the moment when you are lying down n your bed engrossed in a novel, as you go through it, while turning the page (for that slight moment) where you start visualizing each scene as if you are watching a movie, the characters rushing through your mind in flash back, and you sub consciously start forseeing the future course of the story, looking forward to read the next page with eagerness more then what was there before…

…when someobody you have been thinking about drops at your place or calls you up…(somebody there in your mind now, hehe!!)

… the moment when you sit alone in your room after having told everyone that you cleared that exam you prepared for 6 months!!(savoring the moment)

..the moment you reach your home after a hectic day, you enter and turn on the light just to be greeted by your loved ones with a surprise party and with confettis and balloons bursting here and there, as you stand by the door smiling silently visualising whats in the offing for the evening…

…the moment when you had a trivial altercation with your loved one,while you are sitting together not talking to each other, and all of a sudden there is this song which is aired on FM, and you start with a jig in tune with the melody and look at each other and start smiling…

… the moment when you are parting with your old friend(s) and the train has just started… and you are standing on the door of the wagon.. waving “bye-bye” with your heart beating fast…(hmmm…)

… the moment after the HR manager has just called you and told you,”You are through! Congrats!”(Eureka!! i did it)

…the moment when you and your love attends a common social do(all decked up,looking ethereal)without being aware(or rather ‘made aware’,wink)of the same, as you exchange glances with those angelic eyes, going completely oblivion of eveything and/or everyone around, that moment you just smile with this comforting feeling that he/she is yours, and only yours..

…the moment while you are driving with your girl (sitting right next to you) and you are worried about something which didnt turn out as you had expected;the gal puts her hand on yours (on the gear pad) and without saying anything, looks right into your eyes, with that look of assurance (saying that things would be fine)…

..when you make something for the one you love after spending loads of time (cutting that from your hectic schedule), as you are making it, you start visualising how he/she would react when they see it..a (silent) smile lits up your face, and then you pat your head and say, hey, enough!get back to it now..lolz..!!

….When your love gives birth to your child, you are called in to see your little cuddly muddly baby, as you look and hold them (ahh twins, hehe) in your hands the feeling of ecstasy of being a father reflecting on your face with that smile, and a thank you expression on the face for your wife, its choo very cute..silence then is the best way (if not the only way) to communicate..

….When during the courtship period, you and your loved ones are together, and both sides of the family agrees to it, the feeling of security that comes up knowing that you are and would always be with the one you love, is so relieiving and comforting..that moment you just want to be with the person and stay silent…

…when a mother sees her baby sleeping, and all of a sudden he smiles or yawn she goes awww!!, the feeling what she goes through is reflected through the silent sparkle in her eyes..

….When your cell phone rings and you see the name of the one you love, for that fraction of second (after the ring, and before you pick up the phone) the silent smile that covers up your face is priceless..

…When your friends says something to you, you look at them, (though actualy not looking at them) as you are completely lost in the thoughts of one you love, its then when you are moonstruck, and you smile silently (notwithstanding your friends may be crying hoarse to get your attention, lolz)..

…when you are overflowing with love for someone you love, you are unable to hide your feeling for someone you love the most, you desperately wanting to confide what you are feeling to your closest friend, and finaly when you confide and then when you and your best friend remains silent savoring that moment…

…the moment when you accidentally hear somebody say something good about you..(ahhh haaa,lolz)

Can you imagine the importance of a silent moment in a song??When Bryan Adams stops for a while along with music, before he goes on in his husky voice…… Please forgive me. I can’t stop loving you! or the continual silence in Shaans … le chale …

Ever had those moments when you thought you were tired enough that you reach for your bed after dinner.. but find yourself wide awake looking at the roof of your room silently…

But you sure are ‘thinking’… those moments of self-talk are the most important in our lives. Those moments when we listen to our hearts! Those promises… those decisions… those are the moments when we make our destinies!

Next time you go silent… listen carefully to what your heart is saying.. listen to its joy…listen to its pain.. listen to its fears.. listen to its desires..Don’t make it shut up and go off to sleep.

LISTEN TO THAT VOICE and ACCEPT EVERYTHING IT SAYS!
That voice alone can lead you to the abode of peace that your sleep lacks… peace that awaits you! Be in touch with your true self… be silent once a day, every day!

Always maintain a silent smile…savor the moment..enjoy lifes little pleasure coz small things makes life beautiful in the most beautiful way…

You can go on remembering your “special” moments!

I had always wondered why I never said anything to myself at those moments.. as if it was “understood”…

Love. Joy. Grief. Surprise. Anger. Hope. Expectations. Support. 

Non-cooperation… happiness, joy, pain.. all feelings just flowed ceaselessly in the ‘years’ that passed in those flash moments!

They say.. the best way to communicate is through “silence”.

Sample this, recieved it via SMS..

Most of us miss out on life s Big prizes…

The Pulitzer.
The Nobel.
Oscars.
Tonys.
Grammys…

But we r all eligible fr life s small pleasures….

A pat on the back.
A good word.
A hug.
A full moon.
A glorious sunset.
An empty parking space.
A great meal.
A good joke.
A love note.
A hot soup.
A cold drink.
An Ice cream.
A thank-you.
A sweet shower of rain.

So dnt fret abt losin lifes grand rewards….. Enjoy its Tiny delights……..

Some amazing quotations:

1. “People often feel something but express something else, they mean something but say something else, so learn the art of sayin nothing in such a way, that it leaves nothing unsaid…”

2. The real art f conversation Is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moments..

3. I chose to love you in silence, for in silence I find no rejection. I chose to love you in your loneliness, for in your loneliness no one owns you, but me

4. When you smile while you are alone, you really mean it..

5. When asked what is love, what would you say? Well the simple answer to this is complete silence. It is a feeling that only one in love can answer to themselves, without words…

6.With WORDS once can at times UNDERSTAND,But only in SILENCE one KNOWS.

7.“There is no feeling more comforting and consoling than knowing you are right next to the one you love.”

 

“Seven Days Without Laughter Makes One Weak!” 

read it somewhere..

“when you want to speak your heart out,i will be there listening to that silence till you actualy come out with a word at last..”

peeps.. this is an interactive blog.. so please pen down some of your moments that though went by in a jiffy but are still treasured while you reflect/reminiscence them… looking forward to it…!! keep enjoying the “silent smile”…!!